Monday, August 26, 2024
Tuesday, July 2, 2024
What About Your Friends?
Amplified Bible.
Proverbs 17:17
A friend loves at all times, And a brother is born for adversity. Good people, good people! It's always a pleasure being with you!
The Holy Spirit has been speaking to me a lot about Biblical friendship. Gonna podcast and YouTube about it. And YES....the Spirit speaks directly to the church in Acts, in 1-2 Timothy (itching ears, etc) and in Rev (hear what the Spirit is saying to the churches), etc.
I feel like I had to say that because I love my Lutherans and my other bros and sisters in the Lord, but y'all old money churches, Lutherans, y'all be trippin' sometimes when it comes to spiritual gifts, and the activity in the Holy Spirit in your lives. Yes, he works through the Word and Sacraments, but HE also works through the gifts HE has distributed to the church. But that's another podcast! This one is about friendship....so let's pray.
Lord, I thank you for the opportunity to do this podcast and this YouTube channel. I ask that as we discuss friendship, and what it should look like in your church, that you would enlighten us, and give us your gifts of wisdom, and discernment. In fact, I pray Isaiah 11 verse 2 over all who would watch or listen to this show, that Isaiah 11:2
English Standard Version
2 And the Spirit of the Lord shall rest upon him,
the Spirit of wisdom and understanding,
the Spirit of counsel and might,
the Spirit of knowledge and the fear of the Lord.
I work part-time for a Veterans Affairs Hospital as a chaplain assistant which I'm extremely grateful for! So while I'm here helping out the chaplains, I attend a Bible study on Wednesday nights. We are going through the entire book of Proverbs, line by line, but arranged by topics. Well, the topic last night was on friendship, and it hit me hard, because I'm going through things concerning who I call my friends, and defining relationships, boundaries, etc. The first thing that came to mind for me was this passage in 1 Timothy:
1 Timothy 5:1-2
English Standard Version
Instructions for the Church
5 Do not rebuke an older man but encourage him as you would a father, younger men as brothers, 2 older women as mothers, younger women as sisters, in all purity.
Wow. That's great advice. Treat older men like fathers, younger men like brothers, older women like mothers, and younger women like sisters, in all purity. You know, that kills a lot of the theology I see now in some churches, where some 30 year old dude claims to be an apostle or a spiritual father. Man that's just crazy! But I want to highlight the instructions for younger men and women. They are to be treated like brothers and sisters. Well what's the glue that holds natural brothers and sisters together? It's love, man! Love and respect go together, it's impossible to separate the two! Man I can argue with my natural siblings all day, but at the end of the day, we will always squash our beefs. Why? Because we're family! But in the body of Christ, sometimes I feel like it's hit or me if brothers and sisters truly wanna fellowship or not. It's just like...man, just be cool. If we're cool, then we're cool. Why all the extra drama and stress? We don't need it! Life is already hard enough. The church should be where we can go to exhale, relax, and know beyond a shadow of a doubt that people have our backs. Lately, I've just been going through some things in that area. Let's look at some of these verses:
Proverbs 17:17
A friend loves at all times, And a brother is born for adversity.
A friend loves at ALL times! A brother (or a sister) is born for adversity. It's like maaaan, I'm soooo loyal, y'all. I'm loyal to a fault. I think it's how I grew up, fatherless and in a dsyfunctional family, but then I learned comradery in the military. We are loyal to each other. We come from different cities, countries, etc., but at the end of the day, when bullets are flying, we come together. Why? Because we see the bigger picture. Luther said this: For we are so corrupted by original sin that [by ourselves] we are unable to discern the magnitude of our sin. For our flesh, the devil, and the world are at hand, who persuade us otherwise and obscure the Law of God written on our minds [cf. Rom. 2:15] https://blog.cph.org/study/luthers-disputations-on-theses-surrounding-law-and-sin.
We come together because there is a BIGGER picture! There is a LARGER story. We wrestle not against flesh and blood....Ephesians 6. My battle is not against my brother, or my sister. My battle is against the Enemy of Our Souls. The devil wants us divided, throwing shade at each other, being deceptive, being in the dark, in the shadows, etc. But Christ said that the things we do in secret will come to light.
Proverbs 18:24
The man of too many friends [chosen indiscriminately] will be broken in pieces and come to ruin, But there is a [true, loving] friend who [is reliable and] sticks closer than a brother.
Proverbs 27:6
Faithful are the wounds of a friend [who corrects out of love and concern], But the kisses of an enemy are deceitful [because they serve his hidden agenda].
Proverbs 27:9
Oil and perfume make the heart glad; So does the sweetness of a friend’s counsel that comes from the heart.
Tuesday, June 4, 2024
We Like The Law! It's Easier! Rev. Irvin Stapf
An Observation: We like The Law. It’s easier!
Friday, April 26, 2024
Standard Equipment -- An Observation, Rev Irvin Stapf, AALC
(Words we can trust: Jeremiah 18:1-6; 29:11; 31:3,
An Observation: Comes as Standard Equipment
A few years ago our middle daughter had the opportunity to buy a seven passenger Honda SUV. This was
very helpful since she is a foster mom who now has five children between the ages of 3 and 9. Two of the
older ones take the third row. The middle row accommodates the child car seat and the booster. Everyone
is safe and belted in. The front passenger seat accommodated the her purse and whatever other items are
necessary at the time. ..... Stay with me all this does have an important point!
There is a fold down video screen for entertainment, and various books and games for longer journeys. All
very convenient and should be sufficiently useful for any journey, short or long. The one difficulty is the
children's tendency not to keep their hands to themselves. Whether initially accidental or intentional matters
little. What is heard is "She hit me." Which of course requires a response of equal or greater magnitude. But
that was intentional and cannot be ignored. The back and forth continues to greater or lesser degree until
there is some intervention.
All of this sounds familiar to every parent in one form and degree or another. It may be in the form of
expressions, "That isn't fair." "She did it to me first." "But you gave him...." "I want......" "But I'm old
enough....." "Billy's mom lets him....." ; or just the very standard and oft used, "Why?" You see, what is
happening in the back seats of a Honda SUV is the display of what people in our Lutheran Church worship
service confess every Sunday morning. “We confess that we are by nature sinful and unclean.”
Other Christian denominations acknowledge the same truth in one form or another. Our fallen human nature
is part of our standard equipment ever since our first rebellion from the will of our God in the Garden. There
must also be the acknowledgment that the solution is not within ourselves. It is not just a matter of trying
harder.
Bear with me further and consider the words in our Lutheran service:
Pastor:
In the Name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit. Amen.
If we say we have no sin we deceive ourselves and the truth is not in us. If we confess our
sins God who is faithful and just will forgive our sins and cleanse us from all unrighteousness.
People:
We confess that we are by nature sinful and unclean. We have sinned against you in
thought, word, and deed, by what we have done and by what we have left undone. We have not
loved you with our whole heart; we have not loved our neighbors as ourselves. We justly deserve
your present and eternal punishment. For the sake of your Son, Jesus Christ, have mercy on us.
Forgive us, renew us, and lead us, so that we may delight in your will and walk in your ways to
the glory of your holy name. Amen
Pastor:
Almighty God in his mercy has given his Son to die for you and for his sake forgives you
all your sins. As a called and ordained servant of Christ, and by His authority, I therefore declare
unto you the entire forgiveness of all your sins in the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of
the Holy Spirit.
People:
Amen. Thanks be to God.
One might ask why we feel is necessary to continue to do this each week when the Pastor has declare our
forgiveness in Jesus Christ our Lord? I believe we find that answer in the back seat of a Honda SUV! It is
also on the front page of every newspaper and evening newscast, headlined in everynational response of one
nation to another's aggressive affront. Of course there are many more complex factors involved but it still
comes down to standard equipment displayed in those sitting in the third row of a Honda SUV.
Dear friends, don't make light of that word sin. Don't treat the account of Creation and Fall recorded in
Genesis chapters one, two, and three as myths. It is what explains so much of what we see in our world and
in ourselves everyday.
The standard for what is good is God Himself, the perfection in which He created us and desired for us. But
our first parents yielded to the devil's temptation to want more, breaking the clear command of our God.
Ever since we have inherited the standard equipment of sin within our human nature. As our Lutheran liturgy
declares it is not a problem we are able to fix. All the expressions we like to use have no place. "It's really
not so bad." "Everybody does it." "We can work it out." or even the fear of each country having enough
bombs to destroy the world.
The solution is not within us. The Solution is only in the promise of Genesis 3:15, the promised Redeemer
who will ultimately crush the head of the Serpent, the devil, the fallen angel Lucifer. It is He, the Lord Jesus
Christ, crucified, died, and raised again from the dead, who lives forevermore. It is He who we have just
celebrated in this Easter Season. It is He, alone, who is able to change our nature, giving us life, hope, and
peace.
We will still have to deal from time to time with those sitting in the back seats of the Honda, but they too
can learn. They too can grow in the grace of our Lord Jesus, beginning to make some better choice about
how to respond to wayward hand, intentional or not. We are redeemed in Jesus and can mature in the only
life that truly has meaning and brings us into God's peace.
May you learn this a bit more each day dear friend.
IFS
(Words we can trust: Jeremiah 18:1-6; 29:11; 31:3,
Friday, April 5, 2024
Rev. Irvin Stapf On Love
Back in ancient days when I was in what was then called Junior High School, 8th or 9th grade, one of our English teachers would put an expression on the black board and ask us to explain what it meant. One that has stuck with me to this day is from Shakespeare's Sonnet 116. At the time I don't think we even knew what a Sonnet was. At any rate the quote said:
Monday, March 11, 2024
Holiness -- Rev Irvin Stapf, Christ Lutheran Germantown, AALC
Greetings to everyone,
Here are more reflections from Rev Irvin Stapf, Pastor Emeritus, Christ Lutheran Church, Germantown, MD, AALC.
Sometime back in grade school, many ..... many years ago, we were introduced to the 1913 poem Trees by Joyce Kilmer with its beginning line, "I think that I shall never see a poem as lovely as a tree." The speaker insists that no human art or creation can match the beauty and majesty of nature. A commentary states that, "The poem can thus be read as a hymn of praise to God’s creation, celebrating both the wonder of the natural world and its maker."
And they will all grow old like a garment Like a cloak You will fold them up, And they will be changed. But You are the same, And Your years will not fail.” (Hebrews 1:1-4, & 10-11)
Sunday, February 18, 2024
Beyond The Surface -- Rev Irvin Stapf, Christ Lutheran Germantown
Don’t settle for surface comments, even mine!